There are two types of social interaction: one is workplace social interaction, and the other is personal emotional social interaction.
I also made friends with a group of very successful people in my twenties. At that time, we were strong and did not achieve exchanges of interests, but we achieved exchanges of values. I may not have anything to give them when we were together, but there is one thing they can get from me, that is happiness. They are very happy with me, and eating and drinking with me can eliminate their loneliness and loneliness. This is also a form of social interaction, but at the same time, I can also learn rich life experience from them.
When we make friends, we cannot just think about what we ask for. We should see what we can give to others. Sometimes giving is also a kind of happiness. Share more with others, help others more, and always maintain a kind and generous heart, and we will eventually get corresponding rewards.
Just like the brothers of the Golden Crown Club, some brothers may not help others in their professional abilities, and some brothers are not even good at speaking, but they have an active and positive heart, always keeping other people's affairs in mind and always thinking about helping others. When others are unwilling to lend a helping hand, they will stand up without hesitation, so in the end they will win people's hearts and win friends must be him. For example, many people met Alibaba waiter and asked them what resources they could provide, but I was different. I would ask them if there was anything I could help you. For example, boss Jin Xilu was smarter and would bring a PPT to provide category reform plans for the waiter. In this way, all waiters would like him very much and be willing to make friends with him.
Socialization is an investment. You should get along with every ordinary friend now. We cannot treat it differently because of the level of the position, because perhaps one day in the future, they will become people who can help us. Just like our July Summit, why can we hire so many executives? It is because we already knew them a few years ago. At that time, we did not alienate them because of their positions. It is precisely because of our long-term sincere treatment that they will help them at critical moments.
Before we were thirty, we must contact all kinds of different people. The Internet is very developed now, but we cannot be limited to online social interaction. We must go out of the house and go outdoors to meet new friends. We must not only meet friends who are like-minded and like-minded, but also learn to meet friends with different ideas, and even those we hate at the beginning. What we need to do is seek common ground while reserving differences and learn their novel ideas. Only in this way can we continuously improve our ideological system.
We must learn to make ourselves strong. Whether it is reading books or making friends, only when we are not only strong can we reach higher-level people. Just like when we play games, we are at level 10. If we play games with people at level 20, we can still resist it, but if we play games with people at level 20, we will definitely be unable to resist. Therefore, only by becoming stronger can we be qualified to choose our teammates and enemies, and to choose our own circle of friends.
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