It doesn’t matter where you are, but the circle you are in!

　　Luo Zhenyu, who has logical thinking, once said, if a person can still become good friends with his friends ten years ago, then this person has basically made no progress.

　　I actually don’t agree with this sentence itself, but I agree with the concept reflected behind it: judging whether a person is progressing depends on whether his network of contacts is constantly iterating and upgrading.

　　-1- [What kind of people do you become if you are friends with]

　　What kind of people do you become

　　Two years ago, when I was talking to a female friend about the circle, she said something that impressed me.

　　Twenty years ago, her circle was girls playing together in the countryside;

　　15 years ago, her circle was students from provincial key middle schools;

　　7 years ago, her circle was college classmates from 985 universities in China;

　　Now, her circle is colleagues working with Internet giants;

　　There are also various masters she met through payment. Now she is planning to join a weight loss circle to make her life more quality.

　　Jia Pingwa wrote in his "Game of the World":

　　" The circle of friends is actually the world of your life, and your struggle for fame and fortune is the history of your friends' good and evil.

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　　Your circle of friends represents your aesthetics and level of life. People who are unwilling to break out of the comfort circle of friends will have a wider gap with others in comfort.

　　You will become a friend of the kind of people you will become. "The porch grows in the numbness, and it is straight without supporting it. The white sand is in the nirvana, and it is all black with it." This is probably why powerful people always appear in groups. But only when you become excellent can you attract excellent people.

　　-2- It doesn't matter where you are, what circle you are in is important

　　Many people think that high-quality networks only exist in cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. When fresh graduates choose where to develop, they will also consider going to big cities to seek broader development opportunities.

　　This view is correct, but it is not that correct.

　　Going to a big city and making connections are different. It still has to be said whether you can make friends after you go. But at least now, there is no direct relationship between region and circle.

　　Too many people enter a circle through online contact and offline gathering. The development of the Internet makes communication more convenient, and as long as you want, it is possible.

　　For example, blockchain was very popular some time ago. If you were in Beijing, you could only attend some offline gatherings. However, in some second- and third-tier cities, some people are very awesome to play with this. Many people came across cities to find him because he is a real well-known person in the circle.

　　So, don't be overly obsessed with regional factors. It doesn’t matter where you are, what circle you are in, and it’s even more important to be with excellent people!

　　-3- Most of the money you make comes from your circle, not your knowledge

　　In your life savings, in addition to money and professional knowledge, how competitive are your connections?

　　The Stanford Research Center once published a survey report, which concluded at the beginning: 12.5% ​​of the money a person earns comes from knowledge and 87.5% of the relationship. Is this data shocking you?

　　What is interesting is that the sentence we often say seems to verify this conclusion: the rich are in relationships and the poor are in contact with relatives. The poor refuse in doubt, while the rich understand in doubt.

　　In Hollywood, a popular saying: "Whether a person can succeed is not what you know, but who you know." No matter how hard a person works, no matter how hard he works, it will only be a person's achievement. If a group of people work together to do one thing, there is a greater possibility of success. Circles are power, and this power can bring you more benefits.

　　In the circle of ordinary people, they talk about nothing, earn wages, and think about tomorrow.

　　The businessman's circle talks about projects, makes profits, and thinks about the next year.

　　In the circle of career people, they talk about opportunities, earn wealth, and think about the future and protection.

　　In the circle of wise people, they talk about giving and exchanges with dedication. If you follow the way, everything will naturally be rich.

　　So, it doesn’t matter where you are, what matters is the circle you are in. Do you want to know how to get in touch with higher circles when doing e-commerce?