Einstein once said: "The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few friends with a very upright mind and heart. " The so-called "comrade" is a partner of "like-mindedness" and "harmony".
Whether in life or work, with excellent people, in this invisible pressure and subtle atmosphere, we will become excellent unknowingly. This is what is called "those who are close to red and those who are close to ink and black."
01 Your circle determines your pattern
There are three types of people in society: the bottom, middle and high.
The bottom is that people step on others. When they see others not doing well, they will feel inexplicably happy. To put it simply, this kind of person is a very selfish person. He doesn't know how to share, and he won't help others. Not to mention circles, he only has himself in his circle. Such a person will never succeed, and he will not even understand the huge gains that the circle brings to him.
People at the top are people with big plans. They habitually help others and know that they must rely on circles to magnify their careers hundreds of times. In addition, they also know that once they fall into the abyss, the people in the circle will pull him out and help him reborn.
In modern society, connections are equal to money. As a businessman, you should be more aware of his or her knowledge.
An e-commerce boss encountered a difficult problem when the company developed to a certain stage. For a moment, he didn't know what to do.
When she was at a loss, she thought of joining an e-commerce club. There are e-commerce owners with similar annual sales. Originally, she just wanted to complain in the group and release some pressure, but unexpectedly, a group of brothers helped her out in the group.
Some were willing to provide her with technical support, some were willing to recommend relevant contacts, and some brothers even flew directly to her company and rented a hotel near her company to provide her with support and timely solutions at any time.
Finally, she overcomes the difficulties and the company returns to normal operation. She is grateful to the brother for his kindness and proposes to reimburse all his expenses, but the brother politely refuses. He said: "Since you want to be a brother for the rest of your life, you must be together through thick and thin."
Jack Ma said: One person can walk very quickly, and a group of people can walk further.
This is the power of the circle. Entering a good circle will help improve your personal landscape. It brings you far more than the immediate wealth and benefits, but also the basis for long-term development in the future.
02 It doesn’t matter who you are, it’s important to be with
Having a high-end circle can quickly help grasp the core of the industry. The core secrets of an industry are difficult for ordinary people to access. No matter how valuable the secret is, once you miss the opportunity, it will only become valuable common sense.
There was a story once circulated: Li Ka-shing's driver drove for more than 30 years and was about to leave.
Seeing that he had worked diligently for so many years, Li Ka-shing took him a check of 2 million to allow him to spend his old age in peace, and the driver said, "No need, you can still get 10 or 20 million."
Li Ka-shing was surprised and asked, "You only earn 5,000-6,000 yuan a month, how could you save so much!"
The driver replied: "When I was driving, you called me in the back and said that I would buy some land from where I would buy. When you said that I would buy some stocks, I would also buy some stocks. So far, I have assets of 10 or 20 million."
This story tells us a truth: it doesn’t matter who you are, what kind of person you are with is important.
When you are with smart people, you will definitely become smart. When you are with hard-working people, you will definitely become a hard-working person.
Contact different people more, expand your network, be good at discovering other people's strengths and strengths, and turn them into your own strengths. You are a smart person.
Be good at seizing the opportunities in life and transforming them into your own, and you will become an excellent person.
03 Connections are eternal wealth
Connections are always more important than immediate interests. Because it is a product of long-term, continuous and long-term interests.
Circles are both productivity and business opportunities. Finding business opportunities and cooperation among circle members is one of the most important goals of circle economy.
Because on the platform built by circles, information, funds and projects can be quickly "matched" and jointly create benefits.
Most female celebrities want to marry into wealthy families, not only for worry-free life, but also for long-term considerations. When marrying into wealthy families, the circle they integrate into is naturally the upper class, and the people they come into contact with are of course people from the upper class.
Being good at integrating yourself into a good circle is priceless for the present and the future. It will not only bring you a group of like-minded friends, but also an opportunity for long-term development in the future.
04 If you want to meet a noble person, you will first meet a good self
If you want to join a better circle, of course you must also become better.
If you want to be with excellent people, you must become excellent enough. If you want to be with smart people, you must become smart enough. The most effective way to change mediocrity is to change yourself first and make yourself strong enough.
How to make yourself better, there are some suggestions:
Improve your knowledge reserves, learn more, be good at thinking and contacting different people and things, open yourself up, make your cognition more open, have persistent perseverance and terrible self-discipline, and be good at managing yourself.
Say goodbye to mediocrity, change yourself, and start by finding the right circle.
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